Sex-Positive, Kink-Affirming Therapy
This is a safe space to bring your whole self.
Radical acceptance. Shame-free support. Healing without judgment.
Sexuality is a rich, complex part of being human. For many, that includes kink, BDSM, power exchange, or other non-traditional dynamics. You deserve therapy that affirms your whole self—not one that judges, pathologizes, or requires you to educate your therapist.
At Caretta Counseling, we offer kink-aware, sex-positive therapy for adults across Washington, creating a space where you can explore identity, relationships, and healing in safety and trust.
You Don’t Need to Be Fixed—You Need to Be Understood
Many in the kink and BDSM community have faced therapists who dismissed or misunderstood them. We don’t view your sexuality as a problem to solve. We honor kink as a source of intimacy, agency, release, and even healing.
Our therapists are trauma-informed, LGBTQIA2S+ affirming, and kink-competent, experienced in supporting:
Kink and BDSM practices
Fetish and lifestyle communities
D/s or M/s dynamics
Switch or versatile roles
Impact or edge play (with safety in mind)
Erotic vulnerability and trust through consensual play
Supporting the Whole You
What clients experience when therapy is kink-affirming and sex-positive:
Therapy with a truly affirming provider can help you:
Release shame and reconnect with desire
Build safety and trust within your relationships and scenes
Understand your limits, needs, and boundaries more clearly
Communicate your erotic needs with clarity and confidence
Heal from past wounds without feeling broken
Explore your identity on your own terms
Feel more whole, alive, and connected—both in and out of the bedroom
You deserve to thrive—not just survive—in your relationships, in your body, and in your sense of self.
Whether you’ve been part of the kink community for decades or are just beginning to explore your sexuality, we’re here to support you in a space where you’re fully seen and respected.
Therapy doesn’t have to feel clinical or awkward. It can feel liberating. It can feel like coming home to yourself.